Monday, August 20, 2012
Sunday, August 19, 2012
Austrian Airlines ~ Vienna to Istanbul
Time for landing
The view from the airplane ~ The World Trade Center
So based on Sonia's crazy map, I am supposed to take the airport bus to Taksim. You'd think that I fly 16 hours to see her, she would pick me up, right? I was actually up to the challenge of figuring out how to get there considering I speak zero Turkish!
He said: Where is your friend?
I said: She's probably at home sleeping waiting for me to get there, she's lazy
Then he said: Is this your first time here? I said yes, then he said "Yup, she's lazy"
Views from the bus to Taksim
As soon as I got off the bus, Ali asked me if I needed a taxi. He helped me with my bags. I told him to turn on the meter and he said "no problem" and didn't turn it on. Then he kissed me on my hand and I pulled away. He asked "problem?" I responded "yea, big problem". He apologized.
He kept telling me how beautiful I was, after getting tired of hearing it, I said "where's your wife"; he promptly advised me that he didn't speak English lol. I said "girlfriend?" He motioned to his ring finger and said "girlfriend, no". That didn't work, we finally get to Sonia's house (it was supposed to take 5 mins but he seemed to take the scenic route) and he asks me if I am staying alone, I was like "nope 5 people" lol.
I asked him for the price ready to start negotiating since he refused to turn on the meter, he said "no problem" and then informed me that the ride was free.
Finally, I get to see Sonia!!!
Thursday, August 2, 2012
I wish I wasn't in love with you, so you couldn't hurt me. Its just not fair the way you treat me, look you dont deserve me.
Like the alliteration with my three L'sfor the title? Wicked lol
Love Languages are critical to relationships to foster communication and understanding. If you tell someone who only speaks French, "I love you" in English, repitition will be futile because they simply do not understand. Here are the five love languages posed by Dr. Gary Chapman:
1. Quality Time
2. Physical Touch
3. Words of Affirmation
4. Acts of Service
5. Receiving Gifts
(in order of my most dominant/fluent)
I was this close (imagine my index and thumb pierced very closely together) to ending an association because I did a mini analysis and concluded that it was not mutually beneficial. I felt as if I was the only one contributing while they simply received without a thought of reciprocating. I was convinced that we enjoy each other's company but I felt my feelings were based on a desire to share/grow and maybe they merely considered me for entertainment.
And then I remembered...
IF SOMEONE DOES NOT LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE LOVED, THAT DOES NOT MEAN THEY DONT LOVE YOU.